Matt 26:39 And going a little farther, he threw himself on the ground and prayed, “My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from me; yet not what I want but what you want.”
Jesus surrendered control by taking personal responsibility. He chose to do his Father’s will no matter what.
Have you found reason to throw yourself to the ground to pray? What is your “cup” right now? What are you asking God to take away? What do you need to surrender? What do you need to do in response?